I am in a relatonship?

[writing_noe]

Everything is strange and nothing seems real at time. This is one of those things.

Four months ago (on January 10th, 10/01 for me but 01/10 for some of you) I invited Fede over at my place (Yes, I still live with my parents but that will change in a couple of months and no, I am not moving with Fede) because well, I had promised him a meal (Asado, not really barbecue but close enough) some time ago.

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Who is Fede? Well, we've met for 15 years? Sort of? Just having people in common, being in the same room/parties/gatherings but we only starting going from acquantainces to friends in the last two years.

Last year, as October started to end, things started to change. Gradually at first and then not so-gradually.The "are we flirting???" stage began. I actually discussed this with j_okay because I was unsure about the whole thing. Jonathan, being the brighter man he is, clearly saw and said that we were indeed flirting. I particularly loved his "NOE, this is obvious. Please stop bringing shame to the good ol' house of Ravenclaw with this foolish questioning" face.  
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Back to the Asado. So, he came home, we ate, had a good time. The four of us. At some point I did realise I was sort of introducing my boyfriend to my parents without him being my boyfriend. Anyway, around 4 pm and Fede and I left to go to his place. I had already asked him if it was alright if I went to this place so we could have a very much promised daytrip to Chinatown here. I live in the province and he lives dowtown so it made sense, ok?

Anyway, after we left my house, around three blocks later, he asked me if he could kiss me. And I said yes. I KNOW. Kissing him should have happened before the whole "let me introduce you to my parents" but that is how I am and he gets that.

Now, I don't really want to bore you guys, so I will describe Fede and our relationships by giving examples of what he does/we do.
 

Do not let bread unattended around Fede. Honestly.

He is a lawyer, loves chaoes and likes to walk for 2 hours. Actually walking, btw,  not leisurely strolling around. Before we dated, once we were walking side to side and got tired because we, or at least I was unconsciously racing. He walked fast so I had to walk faster than him and then he had to walk faster than me and yeah. Unless my feet hurt I CAN'T WALK SLOW. 

Just as we both enjoy walking, we also like spending hours in bed, napping and just doing nothing. 

He is a trekkie and while I don't get a 1/10 of the things he says when he starts talking about Star Trek (I know that if anything reminds him of ST I will get a 40 minute talk about it) but I really, really love so much how he glows, eyes all shiny, hands moving. 

Things I really enjoy and either he enjoys them as well (or maybe just indulges me), shopping together elemental stuff. You know, sugar, coffee, groceries, toilet paper. Doing house stuff? Like after he had his place painted me had to move furniture back. 

We are a ball of nerves. Like sometimes (allthetime) I worry about something but I try not to let him feel that because I don't want him to worry, but he is too good at reading people so it makes him nervous that I get nervous but waits until he can't help asking me if there is something wrong. 

He likes swords and kniveees. I liked them too but I don't have as much knowledge and dedication. Thanks to him my dad and I have this habit of watchign Forged in Fire together. 

One that that I like is that if he snores too loudly he sort of wakes himself up so he stops snoring. Really helpful when he is snoring RIGHT INTO YOUR EAR.

He is usually the first one to fall asleep and to wake up but some Sundays ago I got up first. We had to come to my house but it was raining (we were at his place) and he looked so peaceful and cute asleep that I didn't want to wake him up.

He does pilates and he fell ONCE. So now, whenever he is about to enter a pilates class I text him a "Please don't fall" and after class, he reports to me telling me if he has fallen or not.

Well, I think I've shared enough!